On the first day, the boy drove 37 nails into the fence. As the days went by, though, the number of nails gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it, and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed, and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.
He said, "You have done well, my son, and I'm very proud of you. But look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. Remember that when you say things in anger, your words leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out, and it won't matter how many times you say 'I'm sorry'--the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one."