In all of the talk about being completely present in the moment of “right 
  now,” I sometimes think that we lose a bit of perspective concerning the 
  future.  No, it’s not healthy or productive to focus entirely on the 
  future, but it can be very important to make informed decisions about the 
  present moment by thinking about what’s coming up in the future.
This principle was demonstrated very clearly this past weekend when I 
  attended the state track meet with our high school team.  Having worked 
  with the team for several months, I was very aware of who had been working 
  hard for those months and who had been working less hard.  At the meet, 
  it was very clear who had been doing what–and there were some very sad young 
  people who had had talent enough to make it to state, but who had made 
  decision after decision during the season not to try to improve their 
  abilities through hard work.  In their series of present-moment 
  decisions, they had decided to talk to friends, to spend time texting, even to 
  skip practice to do other things, while others were making the decisions to 
  work hard in order to try to improve.
In the right now, it can be tempting to put something off in order to 
  “make the most of this moment.”  Sometimes, though, making the most 
  of this particular moment can involve preparing for future moments–and that 
  could mean that we decide now to work hard, or even to do something that we 
  find unpleasant, simply to avoid making future moments completely miserable.  
  This isn’t at all a sacrifice of the present moment, but a productive use of 
  it with an eye towards the future.
Living in the moment doesn’t always mean having the most fun possible or 
  doing only things that we like to do.  It means being aware of our lives 
  and our surroundings–and even our future–and doing what we can to make the 
  now special and prepare for the future nows.
 
 
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